Ladies See Reasons Why You Are Responsible For Your Relationship Not Working The Way You Want
Look, don’t get me wrong… Falling in love is a beautiful thing…when it happens on both sides of a couple. But if you see that your emotional attachment to men is the cause of many of your relationship problems, and if you’re left brokenhearted over and over again, then it’s time to do something different.
Love is not selfish. It does not demand.
Love is about balance. It happens when two people want (note I didn’t say need) each other, but can stand independently of one another.
People in love want to give to one another, not take.
Putting too much trust in people will sometimes leave you heartbroken because there is no guarantee that they will stay in your life forever.
Yeah, its true you truly loved that person, you gave in all yourself (your effort, heart, mind and time) in that relationship, you made adjustments and accepted many things for the good of the relationship, you had too much hope and plans for it. But all that wasn’t appreciated and valued.
They ended it with you and broke your heart. They moved in with someone else. You are now hurting and regretting. You feel used and wasted. You are having sleepless nights because of too much thoughts and pain.
Sometimes we are responsible for our heartbreaks and disappointments in relationships. We love people so much more than we love ourselves, we trust them so much more than we trust God our creator, we love while expecting a lot from people,
Ladies See Reasons Why You Are Responsible For Your Relationship Not Working The Way You Want
We see the warning and letting go signs but still we get stuck in there till we are completely broken down and lastly, we never learn and apply any lesson(s) from our past. We need to work on those few things in order to shield our hearts from disappointments and heartaches all the time and to have lasting relationships.
If you’re wondering why you fall in love more than any of your friends, and why so few guys seem to reciprocate your feelings, it’s time to consider whether or not you have an unhealthy emotional attachment to men.
You Think Single = Unhappy: Having a man won’t make you happy. That has to come from within.
Ohh, I hate that so many women believe that if they’re single, they’re incomplete or unhappy. There are so many reasons to be content as a single person.
You Follow Feelings, Not Logic in Your Emotional Attachment.
You Get Distracted by “Shiny” Male Qualities: It’s easy to get distracted by a guy’s superficial features, but be wary of those features convincing you that you’re in love. (Though, ladies, you’re not proving me wrong about this superficial stuff; recent research shows that women still prefer men with “muscles and money.” C’mon, gals! Give the rest of us a chance!)
As you spend more time with him, ask yourself: is this love? When you look at him, do you feel love? Or are there things you try to ignore that would otherwise tell you that this isn’t the one?
If so, start listening to your instinct. It wants the best for you.
Set your standards high. Love, when it’s real, feels right.
Ladies See Reasons Why You Are Responsible For Your Relationship Not Working The Way You Want