Personally speaking, I think it’s OK to fake orgasms once in a while. But if you’re always faking it, then you’re probably not having the most satisfying s3x. Years of unsatisfying s3x can cause resentment.
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It can make you start to feel inadequate. It can even make you feel like you’re in the wrong relationship. Instead of faking it, you need to take some time to communicate, teach your partner, try new things, and figure that whole orgasm thing out. Plus, faking it is kind of like lying, and it can hurt the precious, necessary trust you’ve built.
8. Playing A Role
There’s this underlying, unwritten narrative to our lives that’s easy to get caught up in. It goes something like this: go to college, date, get married, get a fab career, buy a house, have some kids, and so on and so forth.
It’s an easy trap to find yourself in. If that’s what you want, then awesome! Do that! But if it’s not what you want, make sure you’re not just living your life according to the expectations of others.
Make sure you’re not just doing what you “were supposed to be doing.” I heard this from so many women: “I did everything I was supposed to do.” What you are supposed to do is what makes you happy. There are many, many different ways to live a meaningful life. You get to decide your role.
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