18. Complaining too much
People have been known to bond over a common complaint. But griping incessantly is going to make your date run for the hills. Don’t then be surprised if he doesn’t call you after he told you that he would.
19. Failing to set boundaries
20. Being a feminazi
You may be a hardcore feminist in your heart. It is all right to talk about gender equality/inequality on a date provided that you don’t make your date uncomfortable.
Likewise, if he pulls your chair out or holds the door open for you, look at it as the result of a good upbringing rather than as an attack on your principles.
21. Never footing the bill
Whether it is the first or the fifth date, footing the bill should not be the man’s job alone. True that there are many men out there who swear by principles of gentlemanly conduct and would insist on picking up the tab, but remember to repay the favor next time. Or go Dutch.
22. Being ungrateful or unappreciative
Notice and appreciate the little gestures he makes. He may have driven a few extra miles out of his way to pick you up or brought you flowers not knowing that you’re allergic to them. Nevertheless, show your gratefulness with a simple ‘thank you’.
23. Giving out too much information
Don’t give out too much information about yourself on the first date. Leave a few details out; give the guy something to look forward to.
And dates need not always go as planned. If you feel that your first date with a guy didn’t quite click, but you gave out too much personal information before realizing it, there’s a chance that you could be subject to stalking. Your date may not be obsessive, but why put yourself at unnecessary risk?
24. Constantly using your mobile phone
Put your phone away when you are on a date. Whether it is a work emergency or merely a habit of yours, checking your phone constantly will give the man the impression that you are ignoring him. Also, being active on social media can be achieved without checking into every restaurant or cafe you set foot in.
25. Uploading pictures on the internet
Letting the world know that you just went on a date will seldom work in your favor. A first date can go either way, so it is always safe not to publicize it, especially on social media. Besides, if your date is not ready to make it public, tagging him in pictures is only going to creep him out.
That’s it for now, ladies. Learn what you can from these tips and work towards building a better, stronger relationship with the eventual Mr. Right.
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